Both of them are the type of persons focusing all their energies on their work, actually they both focus all their energies in the things they do care about.
This emerged very clear to each other as they opened up. Another common trait binding their souls and attracting their minds into orbiting one around the other like twin stars is their natural curiosity and wish to learn about new things. This is in particular true for matters concerning the spirit and the attitude towards life.
Reserved as they are they tend nonetheless to be secretly extremely curious and open to the behavioural dance of the people around, still being in their own personal world though.
Stella did not have a formal education about theology. Her views and approach to all the theological matters have always been very personal, dictated by her own deconstructed studies. They are a building made of the incredibly vast assortment of readings she did over the years, mediated by her own sensibility, dreamy idea of what is right and what is not, her strict moral, and all she is.
On the contrary Koshka had deeply studied thees matters and She was also a Dominant woman. Not only she was a dominant woman but she made that as one of the pillars of her own being. Not being openly active as a Dominant did not change that. Stella was a complete layman about the subject, a white book with a big dictionary of knowledge about all that in her bag, a sort of scholar, enthusiastic like a little girl at the first day of school.
During their conversations some of Stellas questions or comments about the lifestyle might have been amateurish or even insulting, Koshka was not the type of person to let such things bother her though.
She took each phrase delivered to her by Stella word by word, repeated them back to her, marked the important points she would focus onto and responded to each question, sharply and diligently. About this Stella was immensely grateful, almost reverently. Most of the time these replies triggered more questions and more paths of knowledge to be explored, they spent months in these daily chats.
Their daily conversations had a beginning and en end. Some days they were the moment of sanity in their hectic days. At the end of each day Stella picked up the pile of inputs and often during the nights she added readings to those conversations, to know more and eventually ask more in the following days. She felt like a protecting priestess about those shared moments, or better, she helplessly behaved like a priestess, in concern to that.
Still today Stella keeps those conversations saved and precious like holy books. At times she looks at them, recognising the young days of their love and how pure that was. As wild as that is, reading them or remembering those moments is for her a moment of incredible sexual pleasure, leading her to repeated orgasms or causing herself to bless in cream her own panties, in peace with herself and the universe.