Because a soul writer understands, and if she is a woman even more so.
Because if she is a writer it is just plain clear when when something is said to someone but the scope is to have someone else listening. She knows the art of the unsaid-said. She understands the motions of the soul and the actions they trigger. She understands what is summoned by bliss, what by confusion, what by boredom, what by the restlessness of mind, and on and on.
She does understand that all and being a woman she understands the subtleties, is touched by kindness, or hurt by rudeness. She has her heart suffer more than others for cheap behaviours, or those aimed at cause emotional pain, and not just to her, but to anyone.
It is a superpower, and with it comes also the downsides.
Because when you have a sense that is so acutely developed, so sharp, so oversensitive, then you have to be careful, you know how you can be overwhelmed.
It is like seeing emotions multiplied, one, two, ten, one hundred times. Yes, you can see the little things, and you appreciate them as others can not. At the same time though, the bad, the dark, the evil done with the purpose of hurting, those to hurt one, two, ten, one hundred times more.
Things may be done for which you are told “oooh it was nothing. Oooh well, forget it, it was just a moment”. To you it is difficult though, and you know it is difficult for others to understand why it is something your litlte sensitive mind cant grasp.
Should we put a threshold to how much we feel then?
Should we see things through such “filters”?
But then where do you put it, and why? What will we be missing?

No, me is me.
Oversensitive, and i am fine with it
(most of the times).