Thought

Give,
because you want to do it, and in the measure you want to do it. Do not allow yourself to think that because you felt like giving you are entitled to expect something in return, something more than the basic good manners. Make Your giving the source of joy for you and do not place it in what you might eventually daydream in return. Let those things stay in your head, enjoy them, maybe make them joy too, but do not transfer this responsibility on the one You gift with your giving.
Enjoy the path of giving, what led you to it, and the moments in which you do it.
If something ever comes let it be a surprise, a gift as well, a blessing, and peace will be in your heart all the time, and your emotions will always be the freshest rewards to all is gifted to you by world.

Night – December 26th

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  1. Give because you truly want to not because you expect something in return. That kind of giving is clean, freeing, and honest. When you give with expectations, you’re not really giving you’re bargaining, even if silently.

    Keep your expectations to yourself. Enjoy the act of giving. Let it be its own reward. If something comes back, let it be a surprise, not a condition. That’s where peace comes from when you stop tying your happiness to other people’s responses.

    It’s a reminder to take responsibility for your own emotions and not to hand that control over to others by expecting them to fulfill a role they didn’t agree to. It’s mature, fair, and powerful.

    Yes, give freely but don’t sacrifice your own needs to protect someone else’s comfort. Healthy relationships require balance. Give, but also pay attention to whether the energy is ever returned, even in small ways. And if it never is you have the right to reevaluate.

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